On the days leading up to the 14th of February, most couples are making arrangements for a dinner date, buying romantic gifts and exchanging ideas for what is commonly dubbed the ‘most romantic day of the year.’ There is something I just love about the 14th of February: the celebration of a gift which bonds us together in many ways. As husband + wife, mother + child, brother + sister, friend to friend.
Much unlike the current media portrayal of Valentine’s day, exclusively for those ‘in a relationship’, I like to think of Valentine’s day as a celebration of love as a bond that connects us to those we love and cherish. Single, coupled or married, Valentine’s day is simply a reminder that love continues, despite the bumps, twists and turns that life takes. Here’s a few ideas to throw into your bucket list for 2013 or beyond!
Tackle your dream list: Is there something you’ve always wanted to try – scuba-diving, attend a chocolate making workshop, go horse riding in the mountains or by the seaside, kayaking in the ocean or river…
A lavish dinner: why not put some extra effort into prepping the evening meal. Surprisingly enough simple food is most luxurious. Pull out the cheese and cracker platters, garnished with dried tomatoes, olives and fresh figs. If the food is simple, don’t skip on the decorations: serve on your finest china, make a bouquet of red roses as your centerpiece, light candles – everywhere (there is no such thing as too many candles), use starched napkins and ta-da! you have a perfect dinner for two with minimum fuss.
A simple, outdoor meal: if simple is your thing, why not take a few extra minutes to pack a bottle of bubbly, a few fancy accouterments and spread out the picnic rug near a quiet lakeside. If coupled – enjoy the heartwarming company of your love, if single why not take along a book and enjoy a quiet evening in solitude.
Single doesn’t equal alone: just because your single doesn’t necessarily mean your alone. Why not round up your unattached girlfriends and treat yourselves to an exclusively-girls night at a fancy restaurant for dinner. Revel in your ability to have an amazing time with or without male company!
It’s not all about me: Instead of fostering the traditional expectations of what Valentine’s day should bring, (especially if you’re in a relationship) why not be thankful for what the relationship does give you, a supporting partner, companion, security, someone you can trust and lean upon. Romance does not necessarily equal happiness. So, why not accept and treasure that person you are with for the wonderful qualities they elude, be romance one of them or not.
Happy Valentine’s Day from Grace & Poise.