“Ladyhood is an emanation from the heart subtilized by culture; giving as two requisites for the highest breeding, transmitted qualities and the culture of good training…”
Calvert continues “Of the higher type of ladyhood may always be said what Steele said of Lady Elizabeth Hastings, ‘that unaffected freedom and conscious innocence gave her the attendance of the graces in all her actions.’
At it’s highest, ladyhood implies a spirituality made manifest in poetic grace. From the lady there exhales a subtle magnetism. Unconsciously she encircles herself with an atmosphere of unruffled strength, which, to those who come into it, gives confidence and repose. Within her influence the diffident grow self-possessed, the imprudent are checked, the inconsiderate are admonished; even the rude are constrained to be mannerly, and the refined are perfected; all spelled, unawares, by the flexible dignity, the commanding gentleness, the thorough womanliness of her look, speech and demeanor. A sway is this, purely spiritual. Every sway, ever legitimate, every enduring sway is spiritual; a arenancy of light over obscurity, of right over brutality. The only real gains ever made are spiritual gains – a further subjection of the gross to the incorporeal of body to soul, of the animal to the human. The finest and most characteristic acts of a lady involve a spiritual ascension, a growing out of herself.
In her being and bearing, patience, generosity, and benignity are the graces that give shape to the virtues of truthfulness.